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Rediscovering the Joy of the Journey: Why Chasing Process-Based Goals Might Be Our Key to Happiness


In our modern world, it's no secret that mental health is getting much attention. It's great that we're focusing on it, but could we be missing something important? Hear me out: what if we shifted from fixating solely on mental healthcare to appreciating the simple beauty of process-based goals? This might sound like a radical idea, but there's growing evidence that it could be the secret to genuine happiness and overall well-being in our fast-paced lives.


Look around, and you'll see that our society is obsessed with results. We're all about achieving, hitting targets, and showcasing success. But let's be honest – constantly striving for outcomes can leave us stressed, burned out, and ultimately unsatisfied. On the flip side, paying more attention to the journey – the little things, the personal growth, the learning moments – could help us lead happier lives.

A study found that for every three positive experiences we have, one negative experience, our mental well-being gets a boost? It's like a magic ratio for a better mood. Another piece of research proved that chasing meaningful experiences and personal growth is far more rewarding than chasing after things like fancy cars and big houses.

Hold on; I'm not saying we should toss mental healthcare out the window. No way. It's crucial for addressing severe mental issues. But what if, just what if, our obsession with treatment is overshadowing the magic of everyday life? Mental health means realizing our potential, coping with stress, working well, and contributing to our communities. Doesn't that sound like process-based goals?


Think about it. Focusing on the process is about appreciating the small stuff, finding the silver linings in setbacks, and building a foundation for long-lasting happiness. It's like giving a high-five to positive psychology, which says that feeling good comes from being engaged, forming meaningful relationships, finding purpose, and accomplishing stuff. So, by diving into the journey, we're ticking all these happiness boxes.


But hang on, let's get real again. This doesn't mean we should wave goodbye to mental healthcare. Nope, not at all. It's about finding a sweet spot where we recognize that our daily actions and perspectives play a significant role in our mental well-being. Just like we hit the gym and eat healthy for our bodies, we can also develop habits and mindsets that keep our minds in tip-top shape.


While mental healthcare is essential, it might be time to spotlight process-based goals properly. We're talking about embracing the journey, growing as individuals, and soaking in positive experiences. And hey, if we're all in on this, we could create a world that cares for mental health while nurturing lasting happiness and contentment.


Sources:


Diener, E., & Chan, M. Y. (2011). Happy People Live Longer: Subjective Well-Being

Contributes to Health and Longevity. Applied Psychology: Health and Well-Being, 3(1),

1-43.


Fredrickson, B. L., & Losada, M. F. (2005). Positive Affect and the Complex Dynamics of

Human Flourishing. American Psychologist, 60(7), 678-686.


Seligman, M. E. P. (2011). Flourish: A Visionary new Understanding of Happiness and Well-

Being. Free Press.


World Health Organization. (2014). Mental Health: A State of Well-Being.


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